In this expert session, Zoia Mahjoubi shares insights on the importance of self-care and psychological well-being. Beginning the session, Zoia introduces herself as a program manager from Germany, emphasizing the significance of self-care in today's complex world. Zoia clarifies that self-care is not just about functioning but truly flourishing, sharing her personal experiences and growth in this area. To engage participants, she uses the Mentimeter app for a quick check-in on recent self-care practices. Debunking common myths surrounding self-care, Zoia addresses misconceptions such as self-care being a luxury, an act of self-indulgence, requiring full self-love and acceptance before practicing self-care, or being selfish.
Self-care is defined by Zoia as the intentional, proactive pursuit of integrated wellness that balances our mind, body, and soul. She emphasizes its essential role in managing stress and maintaining overall health. To clarify the difference between needs and wants, Zoia encourages participants to share their thoughts.
Mindfulness and self-awareness are key components of self-care, helping individuals identify their true needs. Mindfulness is the practice of observing thoughts, feelings, and the environment with focus, clarity, and acceptance, while writing forces us to clarify our thoughts and feelings. Seeking feedback from trusted individuals can help increase self-awareness.
Physical hygiene and mental well-being are closely connected. Zoia emphasizes the importance of setting personal boundaries as an effective self-care practice for psychological hygiene, involving defining and communicating desired boundaries clearly to others. Setting boundaries helps improve self-esteem, confidence, emotional stability, and relationship quality.
Saying no is also crucial in practicing self-care. Using the "yes, yes, no" formula enables us to acknowledge other people's needs while expressing our own empathetically and setting clear boundaries. Developing a positive self-attitude through self-compassion, recognizing human suffering, and practicing kindness to oneself are essential for improved psychological well-being.
Gratitude is another powerful tool for emotional well-being, as focusing on the positive counteracts negativity. Practicing gratitude by acknowledging things we appreciate in life increases happiness by boosting serotonin and dopamine neurotransmitters.
Conscious choices about time management and prioritizing self-care practices can lead to significant improvements in overall well-being. The session concludes with Zoia encouraging participants to define personal non-negotiables, such as exercise or personal time, and consistently practice them for long-term well-being.